I do not want to be looked down.
I do not want to be rated low.
I do want others to see me as a great person.
Don’t you have a experience of thinking such things?
When somebody point out our mistakes
When somebody blame about something about us
People tend to protect themselves.
I think that
I also tend to protect myself from others.
Protecting oneself is human’s natural habits.
However, protecting oneself sometimes take a chance of growth away.
When we protect ourselves, we can not take others’ opinions as advises.
When we protect ourselves, we blame others even if others’ opinion is appropriate.
So, I think that I have to train myself to stop protecting and think
“why others are saying that.”
“What is happening right now”
“What is the real problem.”
I think that I have to admit that sometimes I need to improve and train myself.
I should not do just blaming somebody to protect myself.
Thank you for reading.